As we gain experience and expertise in an area of study we often find ourselves struggling to meet our colleagues where they are. In this session I am going to share an experience I've had that I think can help you bring a little objectivity to the problem. We can all do better at listening and raising others up. I've spent years at this and I still make mistakes all the time. If you are interested in seeing someone solve a rubiks cube live on stage come on over and join me for this lightning talk!